Luvly Lolita...Up Close & Personal

Kehadiran bulan Februari membuatkan diri saya terpanggil untuk menulis satu artikel tentang CINTA...Februari pastinya dinanti khususnya buat pasangan yang sedang asyik masyuk menyulam kasih.Suasana dan dekorasi indah disana sini pasti dapat dirasai dalam bulan yang sinonim dgn cinta ini.Kiriman bunga dan coklat daripada si dia bisa bikin hati kita melonjak gembira.Namun apakah kehadiran jambangan bunga dan kiriman coklat sekadar lambang cinta sahaja.

Musim cinta memang menguja.Apa tidaknya...kala inilah kita seperti di awang-awangan.Sehari tidak berjumpa spt setahun lamanye...Manisnya saat berkasih itu hinggakan aktiviti ketika date juga tidak perlu complicated.Indahnya saat itu hingga tiada apa pun di dunia ini mampu membuatkan kita pening kepala.Hmmm...mengingatkan itu semua teringin pula melalui saat manis itu semula...

Cinta sangat kuat tarikannya...kerana cinta kejanggalan sifat dan percanggahan firasat dua manusia, berupaya menjadi satu.Kadang-kadang cinta mengingatkan kita kepada kebaikan, kesabaran&tolak ansur...dan benci sentiasa memporak perandakan perhubungan.

Perbedaan-perbedaan yang bisa menjadi kesamaan, jika cinta terbit indah bagai bulan mengambang antara kita dan si dia.Persoalannya, memadaikah hidup dgn cinta.Jika kita mencintai lelaki yang salah atau kita terlebih mencintai atau kita sengsara menjadi korban dan si dia pengarang jantung pura-pura tidak mengerti???semua keputusan kita yang tentukan...samaada to be with him or not to be with him...

Satu kajian psikologi pernah membuktikan, wanita yg terlebih mencintai rela menanggung beban dan tanggungjawab lebih 50% berbanding pihak lelaki.Memang begitulah kelazimannya apabila pelan A, B @ C tidak berjaya...we love harder, we love too much!!

Walau sekuat mana hati kita meronta minta dicinta dan berapa tinggi juga harapan kita rela menyerahkan karma cinta kepada lelaki yang kita kasihi, usah jadikan ia pintu untuk memperlakukan kita sewenangnya.Tapi jika kita memilih untuk menentukan sendiri takdir cinta kita, nescaya kita akan bertukar daripada seorang lelaki...so much it hurts menjadi s'org wanita yang cukup mencintai diri sendiri sehingga kita mampu meghentikan semua kesakitan perasaan. Semua itu telah dilalui...loved make me stronger,wiser and better fighter...

Buat mereka yang baru belajar berkasih kasihan, usahlah terlalu lekas percaya.Apa yg terjadi dari luaran adalah apa yg kita rasai di dalamnya juga.
Cinta itu terkadang menipu hingga membawa keliru...Cinta itu berahi dendam namun bisa bikin kita karam.Cinta ada benar...dan ada dusta.Dalam cinta ada syurga ada neraka.Dalam cinta ada segalanya.Itulah yang kita panggil cinta ."Love is in the air"

I want to have a natural understanding of you.

I want life to become an adventure when we're together.

I want to think the world of you and and see it reflected in your eyes.

I want to trigger your optimism and generosity.

I want us to know each other so we can be comfortable together

I want us to have a beautiful friendship.

I want us to inspire each other, believe in each other and worship each other.

I want there to be a powerful bond between us.

I want our psychic energies to flow naturally between us.

I want us to be a team that's unstoppable so we can accomplish the seemingly impossible.

I want our creative energies to combine well so it can assist us to express our highest and best.

I want us to create beauty and form by being together.

I want to inspire your imagination, idealism and aspirations.

I want to encourage you, support you and help you to advance and grow in both inner and outer ways.

I want to help you achieve your personal goals, activate your latent talents and strengths, encourage and promote your creative work and endeavors.

I want to elicit your deepest, most hidden desires and drives.

I want to have confidence in you and see your best qualities shine.

I want us to have a strong intuitive understanding of each other.

I want us to help each other become clearer about our ideals and religious inclinations so that together we can develop a greater sense of meaning and purpose in our lives.

I want us to help each other look beyond our daily problems and issues of our personal lives and focus on more altruistic goals and broader issues.

I want there to be playfulness and a zest for newness infused in our relationship.

I want to cater to your every fantasy and desire that your mind, body and soul is screaming for.

I want us to encourage each other's independence and have faith in one another's creative, inventive ideas and interests.

I want us to have stability, dedication and maturity.

I want our lives to become more secure as we put our focus on responsibilities and practical issues.

I want us to forge a very strong bond which will help us to to form a peaceful and content relationship rather than one based on jet-setting and living high.

I want us not to not take each other for granted after a period of time even though we have a comfortable relationship.

I want our relationship to help us learn more about our own selves.

I want us to not have a need of constant verbal reassurances to remind us of what we already feel on a very deep level.

I want us to know that when the chips are down and the going gets tough, we can always count on each other because loyalty, friendship and reliability are positive, nurturing aspects of our life together.